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10 Secrets Of Happy Relationships

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10 Secrets Of Happy Relationships

Many seem to wonder, “Do happy relationships exist?” Well, we’re here to affirm that they do and that they can even be more prevalent than you think. However, happy relationships don’t just naturally happen without effort. As with any relationship, you have to nurture it to help it grow and commit to its success.

Now, you shouldn’t be discouraged by that, because it’s not as difficult as it sounds! All happy relationships share some common denominators, which we are going to discuss in this article. So, if you’re ready to build some serious relationships for a happy life, keep on reading!

1. Set Realistic Expectations

With the plethora of Hollywood movies and TV shows depicting happy family relationships and passionate couples who live out some fairy tale adventures, it’s easy to get carried away and think that these scenarios apply in real-life. However, this is often not the case, as fiction is meant to depict things at its extremes.

So, let’s be clear: one of the key secrets of happy relationships is setting realistic expectations. Your partner won’t always be a knight in shining armor; your friends and family won’t always be chirpy and ready to bail you out of whatever situation you find yourself in (everyone needs to do some growing on their own, after all). Oh, and repeat after us: there’s no such thing as happy codependent relationships!

2. Communicate, Communicate, Communicate

Let’s face it: you can’t really expect to have happy and healthy relationships without at least putting in some effort to communicate with your loved ones, right? After all, no one can read minds, and everyone likes to be paid attention to and be cared for.

Remember: clear and healthy communication is the pillar of all happy relationships. Make sure you always keep up with what your loved ones are up to and lend a helping hand when they need it.

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3. Fight Civilly

Well, as the famous Aretha Franklin song goes, you need to have (more than) a little r-e-s-p-e-c-t! Sometimes, it’s so easy to fall into the trap of fighting dirty or calling someone names out of anger and frustration. However, you should be mindful of how hurtful this can be and how its long-term effects can cause serious psychological harm. This is the opposite of how happy relationships affect a person. Fight civilly, fight with respect, and you’ll be happier, healthier, and stronger for it.

4. Laugh Together

Since it’s scientifically proven that laughter prolongs life and fosters human relationships, trying to laugh together with your loved ones is a no-brainer. You don’t have to watch comedies to laugh your heart out; just relax, try to be casual and spontaneous, and the laughter will come naturally!

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5. Get Physical

Sure, people often go on dating sites to find physical relationships, but it’s often more than that. Getting it on regularly with your significant other or spouse strengthens your bond and keeps the flame alive. This is likely one of the secrets of happy couples relationships that practically everyone can agree on since a lack of physical attraction can often be the root cause of a relationship breakdown.

6. Make Memories

One of the most beautiful and heartwarming aspects of happy relationships is having shared memories. Anything from taking trips together to a spontaneous picnic in the park qualifies; there’s no need for grand gestures. Putting effort into making memories is particularly important when you want to maintain a happy long-distance relationship. It’s often difficult to spend quality time together due to the geographical constraints that keep you and your loved one apart for prolonged periods.

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7. Celebrate Important Milestones

Acknowledging and celebrating your loved ones’ milestones is very important to show them that you care and happy when they succeed in life. The same applies to them, who should reciprocate when you find yourself in a similar position.

8. Encourage One Another

Being your loved ones’ cheerleader is one of the most rewarding things you will ever do! In healthy relationships, both partners want the best of the other, and they happily push each other to succeed in pursuing their goals. Never shy from doing that! You should embrace it, but make sure you or your partner is not being too pushy, as that can have the opposite of the intended effect.

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9. Make Time For Each Other

Most of us lead hectic lives, and we often find ourselves feeling as if we’re being pulled in all directions, trying to manage work, commitments, and personal life. Don’t take your partner for granted. It’s important to carve out some time that you two will get to spend together doing things you love, and not out of obligation, but out of love and for fun. It will do wonders for your relationship – we can guarantee you that!

10. Make Time For Yourselves

Another important characteristic of happy relationships is that both partners make sure to spend some time alone and tend to their needs. “Alone” doesn’t necessarily mean completely alone, but rather that they dedicate themselves to activities that don’t involve their significant other. It can be anything from a girls’ night out to watching football with friends. Whatever your “me” time entails, it’s highly important that you tend to it, for losing yourself in a relationship can quickly backfire and make you feel lost.

Conclusion

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Having read this article, you should, by now, understand that there’s actually a blueprint to happy relationships and that they just don’t miraculously happen or keep going for everyone without the least bit of effort by all parties involved. If you keep what we said in mind and try to be present in your relationship, then it’s more than likely you will succeed in building happy and healthy bonds with those you love.

Let us know in the comments: what are your top secrets for healthy relationships?

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About The Author
Nicole Rosse is a consulting psychologist in Idaho. For more than five years, she has been helping people solve family problems and find peace of mind. In free time she is practicing yoga and light athletics. She writes articles on blogs so that people who are afraid to go to an appointment with a psychotherapist or spare money for it can figure out themselves.
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